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9 SEATS AT THE TABLE
Misery will not
be served at this table. Leave all venting behind.
The Parlez Salon
KNOW BETTER. CLEAR THE AIR. CARE AND TELL THEM.
1. Know Better.
Bring a Should-Know-Better Conflict you can’t get past.
2. Clear The Air.
Discover the unmet need beneath the misery, and what you need to know.
3. Care and tell them.
Make a Care-In-Action plan to meet needs for trust and confidence and tell them, without fear of being wrong. Without regret, blame or shame.
How I came to BURP
Hello, I'm Gretchen
For over 30 years, I’ve had one-hour conversations with more than 4,000 people who lived with the misery of a Should-Know-Better Conflict (SKBC) because they couldn’t pick paint colors.
I told them they already knew better.
They just needed to trust themselves to care, without fear of being wrong, regret, blame or shame.
It worked 99% of the time.
Then, I began to wonder if the same conversation would work with a palette of words instead.
It did.
The Research Behind BURP
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