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Somebody should have known better.
Now you don't trust they care.
THE MOMENT PASSES. THE MISERY DOES NOT
YOU CARE AND KNOW BETTER. ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS PROVE IT

How I came to BURP

Hello, I'm Gretchen
For over 30 years, I’ve had one-hour conversations with more than 4,000 people who lived with with the misery of a Should-Know-Better Conflict because they couldn’t pick a paint color. I coined it an SKBC. I helped them know what they needed and trust themselves and confidently paint what they love, without regret, blame or shame. It worked 99% of the time. Then, I began to wonder if the same conversation would work with a palette of words instead.
It did.
9 SEATS AT THE TABLE
Misery will not
be served at the table this year.
The BURP Parlez Salon
CLEAR THE AIR. KNOW BETTER, CARE TOGETHER.
BURP C.A.R.E. CONVERSATIONS.
Clear the air.
Bring a Should-Know-Better conflict you can’t get past.
Know better.
Discover the unmet need beneath the misery, and what you need to know.
Care together.
Make Care-In-Action plan to meet needs for trust and confidence.

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Burp C.A.R.E. Conversations
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